I know i wrote about this about a month ago when i felt a connection between someone and me. This time im going to write everything i want in a boy and in the relationship with the boy.
Physically i dont ask for much. I really want him to be at least about 10cm taller than me. The taller he is, the safer i feel when im with him. Like i mentioned, i love having to look up to someone when i talk to him. Or the fact that i have to tip toe when i want to kiss him. And of course the fact that his hands are perfectly at my waist every time we hug. When he's tall, he also must must must at leasttt have an athletic body. I dont need a rugby player but at least i want someone who has nice biceps. Why? cause i think its sexy and it makes him more hug able. HIHI. I have a tendency of leaning on my boyfriend's arms in cinemas so if he has nice biceps its going to be a lot more comfy than leaning on a skinny arms. Another thing i look for physically is nice teeth. I cannot stand guys with ugly teeth. Which is why i go crazy for guys with braces. HIHI.
Mentally of course i want a boy who is matured when it comes to serious issues. One i can talk to when i have problems. One that communicates with me when he has problems. One that doesnt get mad over stupid things. Then i want someone who is witty. Im head over heels for someone with wits. Someone who can get the conversation going with real jokes. Someone who can counter my sarcasm. Someone who wouldnt ask me 10 times a day what am i doing just cause he doesnt know what else to ask me.
For the relationship. Okay heres the thing. I dont want an anniversary. I dont want him to ask me "will u be my girlfriend?" No , i dont want that. Cause i know when that sentence comes out, everything will change. Hes going to hold my hand,gives me roses, spoil me with gifts not because he wants to or feel like it but its going to be because im his girlfriend. No, i dont want that. I dont want him to suddenly say " No u cant go out with ur friends because today is our anniversary and ure suppose to go out with me " . I dont want to have to ask for his permission to go out. I dont want him to restrict me from having fun with my friends be it going clubbing or travelling with my friends. I want freedom. And in return, i will give him freedom. If he wants to drink or smoke or whatever, i will allow it but the only condition is, he HAS to tell me. I want us to have our own set of friends. So that when theres a problem, he would come to me straight. Not go through my friends.
Now are we on the same page ? I think this guy does not exist. From my observation, some boys are just a little too controlling. Some ask their gf's to choose between friends and him. Some wont let their gf go out without telling them. Maybe i used to be that. but no, not anymore. Hopefully ive changed for the better. =)
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