when he doesnt treat u right, leave.

Sometimes, while going through massive heartaches we tend to forget our self worth. We tend to amend ourselves to be the kind of person the other person wants us to be. We tend to cry, beg, plead that person to accept us and in the end, that person will just accept us cause they pity us, not because they love us. Why do we do that? Why do u to that to urself ?

Please realize that it isnt fair. Its unfair for u cause when he accepts u, its not cause he loves u. Its only cause he's sorry for u. In the end, he's still going to treat u badly and ure still gonna be hurt by his actions.Or maybe he's gonna cheat on u and worst, u wont even care anymore cause ure that much afraid of losing him. Its unfair for him cause ure forcing love out of him. As bad as it sounds, u can never force someone to do something they dont want. Its going to lead to other consequences.

I cant stand people hurting themselves for their boyfriends. Cutting ur  wrist just cause of a little fight? Going on such dangerous diets just cause he prefers skinny girls? or something even worst, lying to ur parents just cause he tells u he wants to see u. Why do u put urself in such a position?

So stop doing that to urself and to him. Realize that ure a woman and u are worthy of happiness. If he cant realize that, then leave. I know when he leaves ,ure going to feel worthless and feel like theres no one else there for u. But trust me, god is great. Have faith and always pray that one day ur prince charming is going to come.